Bravery

Jack has begun to let go of things while standing up. He is quite daring at it and will laugh and laugh and laugh when he latches back onto something or falls. One of his favorite things to do is pull up on the big boy's stuffed animal chairs, let go, and fall forward onto them. I know now that it won't be long before he walks because he is very willing to let go and try.

I weighed the boys. They are 41 lbs., 38 lbs., and 19 lbs.

Tooth Log

I hope that Title doesn't sound too gross. I've got to record when Jack got his top teeth. At the beginning of August I wrote a post about his teeth, and two days later the first one cut through. So... that was around August 8. About 1-2 weeks later the second tooth cut through. They show very well now, and there's a big gap between them which is hilarious. He plays around with his tongue, feeling them all the time. Also, when we saw Teresa, our dental hygienist friend, at Dan and Caitlin's wedding, she checked out what I thought were his molars. She said that they're not molars, it's just a rough ridge in his mouth. So, I'm glad to know that.

Doing Without

We are doing without the internet at home right now, so I'm only able to post when I can make it up here to the Library solo. Not too often! But cute things are still happening at our house! ;) I have lots of extra time without the internet, although it is very inconvenient to not have it. So, bear with me not posting as often. I miss checking in with everybody every day!

One thing happened that I thought I'd post about because Jason said it was just too hilarious. It is just a typical thing that happens when one has three young children. I had had enough of our car being filthy, so the other morning during Jack's morning nap, I decided to clean out and vacuum out the inside of our car. Joel and James love to play in the car, so they were quite excited about it, too. This chore took quite a long time. Long enough to where Joel and James didn't want to be in the car anymore. They were playing on the carport still, though, and I knew I needed to hurry because Jack was going to wake up any minute (and God forbid that I couldn't finish before he woke up!!!!!) . So as I was putting the last few things back in the car, I looked down to see James' arm covered in black car grease. "Mama, I put this jar in there and pulled it out again." "what??!!" "Joel told me 'no' so I pulled it out." James had taken a little spice jar and stuck it into the exhaust pipe, then when Joel told him he ought not to, put his arm back in and pulled it out. I can only say thank God that it came out! So while I was trying to make heads or tails of the situation and assess how to clean James up, Jack woke up and pulled on the blinds of his window because he could hear us and knew we were outside. He spied us and started howling. I marched James inside only to discover that the orange cleaner Jason uses when he works on the car was outside in the storage closet. So we marched back outside, although Jack was still howling. We got the orange cleaner slathered on, and I turned on the water hose to rinse James off. This of course turned into a mud mess. I took James to the front porch to undress him before taking him inside. Joel followed us, but didn't pay attention to the mud and walked right through it, getting himself thoroughly dirty. And yes, Jack was still screaming at the top of his lungs. I wanted to scream, too. Needless to say, I didn't finish the car before I rescued Jack from his crib.

My Girls Jewelry

I am very proud of my mom. She has started a new business on Etsy called My Girls Jewelry. She and Jessica took a jewelry making class several weeks ago, and they have been "into" jewelry ever since. It's bordering on obsessive! Well, the best way to make money is doing something that you love. And I think that Mom is really loving making jewelry. I am very impressed with what she and Jessica have been doing (they are actually both selling their items under one shop). So please check them out and support their business! They also do custom orders, repairs, and just about anything you could think of.

Cheers, please!

I have added Jason as an author of this blog, so now if he has anything to say there will be no confusion as to who is saying what. No hard feelings, dear!

The Swing

How do you like to go up in a swing,

Up in the air so blue?

Oh, I do think it the pleasantest thing

Ever a child can do!

Up in the air and over the wall,

Till I can see so wide,

Rivers and trees and cattle and all

Over the countryside -

Till I look down on the garden green,

Down on the roof so brown -

Up in the air I go flying again,

Up in the air and down!

~Robert Louis Stevenson

Joel has turned a new leaf. He likes to swing. He likes it very, very much. He actually says, "I want to go high!" And high he goes. I remember when he was just a newborn in the baby carrier, and Jason would swing it back and forth to try and comfort him. His arms would flail outwards with each descending swing. He hated swinging. Then, four years later, when his friend Adam showed him how he could swing all by himself, Joel's interest was piqued and you might catch him sitting on a swing on the church playground. When we moved, Jason put a swing in our front yard. It is hanging from a wonderfully immense oak tree. This is where Joel learned to love to swing.

In honor of his birthday...

This video is more like him ....

Home School

I have been planning to start doing school this fall with Joel. Not very much school, just a kindergarten sort of amount of school. September was my estimated time of beginning school ... and now that that time is next month, I am really trying to get my act together. I decided that for kindergarten (or Year 0), we would do reading/writing, math, art, and science/nature study. Reading we will do every day, maybe math every day, and the others will be more project based. We have a little desk that Joel will use and he is very excited about it. He has always been more interested in going somewhere to school instead of having school at home. But since we haven't really done any school work, I can see how going somewhere else would be more interesting. Anyway, since the desk is for "his home schooling" he has been rather pumped.

I have been interested in the book, Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons, as I have heard many people using it and giving it stellar reviews. Last week I decided that I wanted to go ahead and get the book because I haven't really found something that has helped Joel progress very well with his reading. I really think the Lord was in the matter of me deciding to get this book. I didn't have the funds to purchase it and was moping about that a little when I realized that the Library might have it. Now, I was also thinking that it would be a stretch for the Dripping Springs Community Library to have this book since the only grocery store in town only recently started carrying baby diapers (you know, like Pampers???!!!). But I looked anyway; I pulled up their website and nearly hit the ceiling when the search engine said that they had a copy and it was not checked out! YES! Let me just tell you, I love this book. Today Joel and I worked through Lesson 1, and he enjoyed it so, so much. That makes me love the book even more. To top it all off, a great home schooling website that I had perused over earlier this summer has free printable downloads of the writing portion of each of the lessons (all 100!!!) on manuscript paper. If you're interested, go here.

For math I am planning to use RightStart Mathematics. And art, science/nature study will all be fun stuff I find to do from the Internet, books from the Library, and Joel's Pop Bottle Science kit he got for his birthday. Aunt Mimi's gift subscription to Enchanted Learning is really going to be nice when it comes to doing these subjects.

So begins this chapter of our lives....

Typical Teether

Jack is teething; he's been teething for awhile now. He cut those top two molars in April. They have not come down any farther - they are each still just four little points sticking though the gums. Then on July 19, just two days before his 9mo birthday, Jack's first front bottom tooth came in; it's on the right side. It has grown in quite nicely and is very cute. He has not cut any more teeth since then, but he has had a couple days of fever, some diaper rash, (on some days) been more tired and clingy, and gnaws the living daylights out of his pacifiers. He is extra picky about food and sometimes just won't eat, and doesn't like me looking into his mouth to investigate. This morning I asked Jason to help me investigate because I just had to know how things were progressing (or not). His top two front teeth are very to cutting through, or so it appears. I am not really quite sure how long it will take, as Jack's teething experience is differing greatly from Joel's and James'. But you can see both teeth, bulging in the gums, so it's just a matter of time before they break through.

I am trying my best to beef up Jack's diet with more variety and interest. It is hard to believe that in a little over two months he'll be a year old and able to eat most things. He is somewhat of a picky eater. He purses his lips and makes the most hilariously awful faces when I give him something he doesn't like. He will wave the spoon away and shake his head if I try to give him a second bite. The other day, before I even gave him a bite (he must have known what was coming), he placed his hands on top of each other on his highchair tray and laid his head down on them in an defeated sort of way. It was pretty funny to see such a little guy do that. This is certainly one way he has kept me on my toes and made me pay attention to him; he is not the little porker that both his brothers were.

He likes:

bananas and cereal
mangoes
really ripe peaches
applesauce
avocado when mixed into something Especially Delicious
pinto beans
summer squash (even the way Grandmommy makes it!)
winter squash
peas
sweet potato
melons
lentils

So we have quite a ways to go. I have started giving him what we are having for supper, when it's 9-month-old approved, which doesn't seem to happen that much, and it has been pretty successful.

Mighty Men

James and Joel went to story time at the Library on Friday without me, as I was without car, car seats, and very much time as the day of the party was approaching. Aunt Jessica took them and afterward told me that they were very good boys, even though other children were not exactly using their Library behaviour. Anyway, Ms. Stark was telling the story, and also went through a whole host of things and had the children say whether the item was God made or man made, and whether it was used for work or play. One thing that she brought was a little toy "Lofty", a crane truck who is a character from the Bob the Builder series. James bonded with it, and Ms. Stark let James bring her (Lofty is a girl) home for keeps.

I discovered, once James had shown Lofty to me when he got home, the main reason he liked her so much. She talks. In the shows, Lofty is the character who is afraid of things, including heights - Lofty???? - and instead of saying, "YES WE CAN" at the end of the theme song, she says, "yeah, I think so!" All that to say that this toy Lofty says, "I don't like it, I DON'T LIKE IT!" among other lesser desirable responses someone could say in response to being given a job. Not bad things, like I said, just less desirable. I didn't want to take away James' new toy, but I also didn't want him to start repeating everything Lofty was saying. So I decided that James needed to start teaching Lofty a few lessons on how we talk to Mama, and gave them some jobs to do. James had me give Lofty/James a command, such as, "go put your shoes away". Lofty would say, "I don't like it, I DON'T LIKE IT!" and I would reprimand her, telling her that we don't say that; we have to do many things we don't like. Then I would tell James to tell Lofty what the Lord tells us to do, and he would tell her Ecc. 9:10, "Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might;". And over and over again we would go through a similar lesson with Lofty, giving her and James jobs all afternoon. Ever since, he has done the teaching all by himself, and it is quite comical to see him walking around teaching Bible verses to his toys.

James' 3rd Birthday

It was a success! Here is a mini-slideshow of the mountain building and cake decorating process.

56 cups of Rice Krispies Cereal...

9 bags of marshmallows...

oh yeah, there was cake, too...

my arm is getting tired...

painting on the grass (is she serious????) ...

He loved it!

Joel dubbed the mountain, "The Big Rock Candy Mountain", which is what the mouth of the tunnel says.

You can see Jason's gum paste characters - Sir Topham Hatt, the Funny Little Clown, Humpty Dumpty, and various toys.

Sketch Tuesday 4

Harmony Art Mom was on vacation last week, so there was no Sketch Tuesday. Joel drew a picture for fun anyway. He used a washer to create the circular faces and noses of these pigs. They kind of look like Pigling Bland, Pig-Wig and Alexander!

This week's assignment was to draw a flashlight. Joel wanted to draw the flashlights with lightbulbs in them. He was planning to draw one in each color of marker he had, but I told him four was plenty and got him another paper to continue drawing on....

Winnie-the-Pooh speak

I didn't grow up reading Winnie-the-Pooh by A. A. Milne, and have immensely enjoyed reading it to the boys. The stories are a little lengthy, but so good! When I was last in Dallas, I was talking to Queen Shenaynay, Beatrice and Fa-so-la-la about not knowing what to call things, or do I pronounce/mispronounce things? For instance, "wolery". It is obviously a misspelling of "owlery", so do you read it "wolery" or "owlery" since you know what it is really supposed to be? Fa said that you certainly must pronounce it "wolery". Now on to heffalumps and woozles. Tonight I asked Jason, "is a woozle a weasel?" He said no, it's a made up animal. Then I said that surely it wasn't, since heffalumps are elephants. He was inclined to think that they were both made up, but since the picture in the story clearly indicates that a heffalump greatly resembles an elephant, one must concede that, indeed, a heffalump is an elephant. In the case of the woozle, I consulted Gooooooooogle. Gooooooooogle directed me to Wikipedia. You can read what it has to say here. My paraphrase: a woozle is assumed to be something like a weasel. Fa and Q. Shenaynay also cleared up my inquiries of Expotitions (as in expeditions), but there are different words that pop up here and there, and I wonder, "do I explain this one, or do I just let them figure it out"? Such as when the animals are trying to figure out what Christopher Robin does in the mornings, and Eeyore is telling Rabbit and Pooh that he is, "be[coming] educated ... he instigorates ... he instigorates Knowledge." It's hilarious; so does it ruin it to tell Joel that he really means a different word? AND, how do you read this: "HIPY PAPY BTHUTHDTH THUTHDA THUTHDY." ???? It's what Owl writes on the empty honey pot that Pooh is going to give to Eeyore for his birthday. He's supposed to have written, "A Happy Birthday". Help, please!!!

p.s. you shoulda seen spell check on this post!

Great Expectations

Okay, since these Wilkinsons don't really celebrate any of the holidays except Thanksgiving, 4th of July, and New Year's, I have made it a point to have really special birthdays for the boys. Special is sort of a relative term. Perhaps "unique" is the adjective of choice. Anyway, James' 3rd birthday is next month and we are throwing him a train themed birthday party. James loves trains, and has since he was old enough to play with JL's Thomas the Tank Engine trains and for us to read him "The Little Engine that Could". So I combined several different train stories and have come up with a "cake" that is a lot more involved than anything we've ever done before. Our "cake" will start as a mountain, about 2' tall, made out of rice krispies. The Little Engine that Could ...

will just be reaching the top of the mountain. There will be a tunnel running through the mountain, coming out of which will be James the Red Engine (because his name is James, of course) ...

pulling those Troublesome Trucks. And we cannot forget our special friend who was key in helping James learn to do his business on the potty. Thomas the Tank Engine with Annie and Clarabel, of course....

I have borrowed Jessica's train cake pan and am decorating them all appropriately. Jason has been busy with gum paste (!!!!!!) making all the items that the Little Engine that Could is carring over the mountain! Very fun! He has also made the faces for all the trains. I cannot wait to put it all together.

I like to move it, move it

After seeing Kung Fu Panda at the movies this summer, Joel and James have been singing "I like to move it, move it". I didn't see the movie with them and didn't know that the song was in the movie. Then about two weeks after seeing it, Joel breaks out singing "I like to MOVE it, MOVE it", just like a pro.

Daddy in the dust...

So I was reading my sister's blog. I miss her so much.....yes, I'm crying right now! Does that mean I'm sensitive? I feel like I get left in the dust sometimes. My job is to be out making a living. That's my job. I go and dutifully "bring home the bacon", and I miss everything. That means one of two things or a combination of the two. I feel the sorrow and longing that comes from missing those special moments in the life of my young little family, and I get in trouble for not knowing what is really going on and "just making things harder" by trying to insert myself into the family life when I come home from bringing home the afore-mentioned bacon. Yeah, I can see the knot growing in the manly stomachs reading this right now; and I hear your unspoken words. "What is he doing?!?! Nobody was supposed to talk about that!" or maybe "I would have never said it, I'm sure glad someone got it out in the open."
Ladies, I'm sorry for this sudden window into the fatherly male mind. You have your own deep struggles.(We do appreciate them. We just have no idea how to help you with them. It just keeps changing.......constantly!!) Men have struggles too. Oh yeah, those meat-headed guys that seemingly should have no problems. "All they have to do is leave us ladies with all the responsibility of house and home and raising children, go to their "work", come home late and collapse on the couch. Do they have any idea how hard it was while they were gone? Do they even begin to comprehend the stress I've been under all day?" No. We do not understand it all. I think I can safely speak for all of us. But we do appreciate it. God bless you!! That's why we married you. That's why we love you. You are amazing!! Can I get an "AMEN"? Can I get a "HALLELUJAH"?!?!
I feel like I'm left in the dust. Ferdinand learned to read 2 new words today. Flitterwallet is swinging all by himself in the big rope swing and goes potty all by himself. Fancy Pants can crawl across the room and he cut a new tooth today. Who knows whether I will see his first step or not. Now what do I do? Everything happened while I was gone. The only thing I have to offer is bacon. Bacon seems a poor payment for everything that happened while I was gone. Reading my sister's blog brought that to the front of my mind. Some of the crazy things that happen at her house with her 3 kids and the things that happen at my house with my 3 kids are quite simply priceless. What I would give too see them or be a part of them!! I never will. They are already gone....
It's hard to miss it all and read about it later on an Internet blog. I miss my mother and my father and my sister and her husband and precious children and my brother and his lovely new bride and my wife and my own 3 beautiful treasures. It's hard to miss it all. Keep blogging ladies. It's good to read about it. You are doing a great job.

~King Arthur~

Perfection vs. Excellence

My epiphany of the week:

I may not be capable of acquiring perfection, but I may acquire excellence in what I do.

And the Glory, the Glory of the Lord...

... is the song in the background. I think this may be as close as I'll get to capturing James' dramatic singing face. It's not nearly as animated as when he is when he's not on camera.

I'll do what I can

There really are so many things to write and record that it is overwhelming. Lots of things are not appropriate to post, some are essential to post, and there is a large area in between. But what it comes down to is posting what I remember when I remember it. It is not the most precise science. I really hate it, but it is the nature of life as I know it right now. Jason says that if I do my best, it is good enough. The question is: am I doing my best? Sometimes I do; I hope it is most times. But I know that I do not always do my best. I have a quote by Mary Anne Radmacher that is magnetized to my refrigerator. It was a gift from Queen Shenayay. It says, "Courage does not always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, 'I will try again tomorrow'". For me, occasionally, it is in the morning saying, "I will try again today". Sometimes there is very little courage in me, and on those days I feel like a failure. "Does the road wind uphill all the way?" asks Christina Rosetti's poem, and the answer is, "Yes, to the very end." Or as GG says, "Life's hard, and then you die". It's true.

...BUT...

I'll do what I can. What I can do is my best. What I can do is try again tomorrow. What I can do is choose to be happy even though I haven't had a shower in three days, and my teeth haven't been brushed since ...?..., and even though I don't want to cook supper, and even though I am sick and tired of all my clothes, and even though Jason has the car today and I could really just stand to get out of the house, and the floor is dirty and the ironing is piling up. I CAN choose to be happy. Because God has given me so much. A wonderful husband, three great kids who are beautiful and healthy. And countless other things. I'll do what I can because I must - and I want to! "To whom much is given, much shall be required". I might as well do what I can because it will be required of me whether I like it or not.

Mother's Talent

Today at church I was able to get Jack to fall asleep. Yea! I walked back (up, actually) to our pew to sit down with everyone else. Now, if we had a family of girls, everyone would scoot down and whisper to each other to "make room". But we have a family of boys. Plus, cousin JL was sitting with us. They look up at me, then look down, down, down the pew and pat and point at a place right smack dab in the middle of the pew. So I climbed over our two big boys, Jason and JL in my heels with a sleeping baby and he actually stayed alseep and I actually didn't make a fool of myself, either. I actually got a compliment on my success.